How Do We Lead Our Children In A Way That Fosters A Real Relationship With Jesus?

Q: How do I lead my children in a way that goes beyond memorization and fosters a real relationship with Jesus?

A: The number one way to do this is for you to show very openly to your children that you have a relationship with Jesus. Speak with them in a way that assumes or expects that they should have a relationship with Him as well. For example, when they ask you a question, you might respond by asking, 'Have you talked to Jesus about it?' This kind of engagement helps to foster their relationship with Jesus.

Be very natural and open about your own relationship with Jesus. You might say, 'This morning I was praying for you, and God directed me to this passage that I want to share with you,' or 'I had a wonderful time in the Word this morning.' Being open about your walk with the Lord goes a long way in encouraging them to develop their own relationship with Him.

Assuming or engaging with them as if they do have a relationship with Jesus is key. I hope that's helpful for you. God sees that you want to do well as a parent, and that's very honoring to the Lord.